Psychoanalysis in Ajax

You Keep Ending Up in the Same Place. It's Time to Understand Why.
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You've tried to change. You've worked on it. But the patterns keep showing up.

Maybe you:

  • Choose partners who are emotionally unavailable, just like your parents were

  • React with intensity that doesn't match the situation (and you know it, but can't stop)

  • Sabotage success right when things are going well

  • Feel like you're performing a version of yourself, disconnected from who you really are

  • Keep replaying childhood dynamics in your adult relationships

Other therapies helped you cope. Psychoanalysis helps you transform.

This isn't about managing symptoms or learning new skills. It's about understanding the unconscious forces driving your choices. The hidden patterns formed in childhood that still run the show. The parts of yourself you've buried or disowned. The deeper truths beneath the surface.

At The Relationship Agency in Ajax, Gabriela Arriola brings advanced psychoanalytic training and decades of experience to this depth work. With credentials from the Toronto Psychoanalytic Institute and specialized training in narcissism, trauma, and relationship dynamics, she helps you understand yourself at a level that creates lasting change from the inside out.

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What is Psychoanalysis?

Psychoanalysis is a form of depth therapy that explores the unconscious mind—the thoughts, feelings, memories, and desires that influence your behavior without your awareness. Unlike therapies that focus primarily on current symptoms or specific skills, psychoanalysis looks at the deeper patterns and dynamics that shape who you are.

Think of it like this: if other therapies help you rearrange the furniture in your house, psychoanalysis helps you understand the blueprint—why the house was built this way, what's in the foundation, and how you might renovate it to better suit who you want to become.

In psychoanalytic work, you'll explore:

Your unconscious patterns. The automatic ways you think, feel, and relate that you may not even realize you're doing. These patterns often formed early in life as adaptations to your environment, and they continue influencing you in ways that may no longer serve you.

Your defenses. The psychological strategies you use to protect yourself from difficult emotions or experiences. While these defenses once helped you cope, they might now be keeping you stuck or preventing intimacy and authenticity in your relationships.

Your past's influence on your present. How early relationships with parents, caregivers, and significant others created templates for how you see yourself, others, and the world. Psychoanalysis helps you see how these early experiences show up in your current relationships and life choices.

The meaning behind symptoms. Rather than just reducing anxiety or depression, psychoanalytic work explores what these symptoms might be communicating. What internal conflicts they might represent. What needs or truths they might be protecting or revealing.

Your internal world. The different parts of yourself—some you're aware of, some hidden. The aspects you've developed, the ones you've disowned, the voices of internalized others. Psychoanalysis helps you understand how these parts relate to each other and find greater internal harmony.

Gabriela integrates psychoanalytic understanding with other approaches like Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Gestalt, creating a rich therapeutic experience that honors both depth and healing. Her training in Lacanian psychoanalysis and recent work on the psychopathology of narcissism brings unique perspectives to understanding relationship dynamics, identity, and the construction of self.

Psychoanalysis isn't for everyone, and that's okay. It requires commitment, curiosity about your inner world, and willingness to sit with discomfort. But if you're someone who wants to understand yourself at a deeper level—not just feel better temporarily but actually transform how you relate to yourself and others—psychoanalytic work might be exactly what you're looking for.

Who Benefits from Psychoanalysis in Ajax

You keep ending up in the same relationship patterns.

You find yourself attracted to emotionally unavailable partners, or you push people away when they get close, or you lose yourself in relationships. You can see the pattern, but you can't seem to break it. Psychoanalysis helps you understand the unconscious dynamics driving these choices and create new possibilities for intimacy.

You struggle with parts of yourself you don't understand.

Maybe you have impulses that frighten you, persistent fantasies you can't make sense of, or aspects of your personality that seem at odds with each other. Psychoanalysis creates space to explore these parts without judgment, understanding what they represent and how they developed.

Childhood trauma still affects your adult life.

You experienced neglect, abuse, loss, or other early trauma that continues showing up in your relationships, sense of self, or emotional life. Psychoanalytic work helps you process these experiences at a deeper level, understanding how they shaped your development and finding paths to healing.

Your reactions feel bigger than the situation.

Certain triggers send you into intense emotional states that you know, logically, don't match the present moment. You might rage over small things, feel devastated by minor criticism, or experience anxiety that seems out of proportion. Psychoanalytic work helps you understand what's really being triggered—often unprocessed experiences or conflicts from your past.

You feel disconnected from your authentic self.

You've spent so long adapting to others' expectations, performing roles, or protecting yourself that you're not sure who you really are underneath. Psychoanalysis helps you uncover and reconnect with your genuine self—the person you were before you learned you needed to be different to be safe or loved..

You want to understand, not just cope.

You're less interested in quick fixes or symptom management and more interested in genuine self-knowledge. You want to understand why you are the way you are, how you got here, and how to become more fully yourself.

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Gabriela works with individuals, couples, and families in Ajax and virtually across Ontario, offering sessions in both English and Spanish. Her extensive training in multiple modalities means she can integrate psychoanalytic depth with other approaches as appropriate for your unique needs.

Sessions are available in-person at our Ajax office (62 Harwood Ave S) or virtually anywhere in Ontario. Gabriela offers both day and evening appointments to accommodate different schedules.

What to Expect in Psychoanalysis Sessions with Gabriela:

Psychoanalytic therapy looks different from other forms of counseling. Rather than a structured agenda or specific homework, the work unfolds through exploration, reflection, and the relationship between you and your therapist.

The Talking Cure

In psychoanalysis, you talk. You share what's on your mind—thoughts, feelings, dreams, memories, fears, hopes. Gabriela creates a space where you can say things you might not feel comfortable saying anywhere else. Where contradictions, confusion, and difficult truths are welcome.

Free association and following the unconscious.

Rather than sticking strictly to an agenda, Gabriela might encourage you to follow where your thoughts lead. Something you mention in passing might be more significant than you realize. A dream, a slip of the tongue, a pattern in what you don't talk about—all of these can be doorways to understanding.

The therapeutic relationship as a window.

How you relate to Gabriela in therapy often reflects how you relate to others in your life. If you're worried about disappointing her, or if you find yourself competing with her, or if you struggle to trust her—these dynamics are worth exploring. They're not problems to fix; they're information about your relational patterns.

Interpretation and making connections.

Gabriela might offer observations about patterns she notices, connections between what you're describing and earlier experiences, or ways of understanding what's happening beneath the surface. These interpretations aren't pronouncements of truth—they're offerings to consider, try on, and see if they resonate.

Working with resistance.

Sometimes you might find yourself avoiding certain topics, forgetting things, or feeling stuck. In psychoanalysis, this resistance isn't seen as a problem—it's valuable information. What are you protecting yourself from? What feels too dangerous to explore? Gabriela helps you work with, rather than against, these protective mechanisms.

Longer-term work.

Psychoanalysis isn't a quick fix. Meaningful change takes time. While some people see Gabriela for focused work around specific issues, others engage in longer-term therapy that becomes a journey of ongoing self-discovery and growth. The frequency and duration of sessions is something you'll discuss together based on your needs and goals.

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Why Choose Gabriela Arriola for Psychoanalysis in Ajax?

When you're choosing a psychoanalyst, credentials matter—but so does the person behind them. Gabriela brings both extensive training and a genuine passion for depth work that makes her uniquely qualified to guide this kind of therapeutic journey.

Advanced psychoanalytic training. Gabriela completed the Advanced Psychoanalytic Training program at the Toronto Psychoanalytic Institute (2020-2024), one of Canada's premier psychoanalytic training centers. This intensive four-year program goes far beyond standard therapy training, providing deep theoretical grounding and supervised clinical experience in psychoanalytic practice.

International perspective. Before coming to Canada, Gabriela practiced as a psychotherapist and clinical psychologist in hospital and school settings in Uruguay. Her training in Lacanian psychoanalysis from the Uruguay Psychoanalytical Institute brings a unique continental perspective that complements North American psychoanalytic approaches.

Gabriela Arriola, MSW, RSW

Life experience and cultural competence. Gabriela describes herself as "a deep thinker who brings extensive training and life experience to my work." Her clients appreciate that she has the confidence to walk with them into deep healing. As someone who has navigated transitions between countries and cultures herself, she brings lived understanding to questions of identity, belonging, and finding oneself across contexts.

Bilingual services. Gabriela offers therapy in both English and Spanish, making psychoanalytic work accessible to Durham Region's Spanish-speaking community. The ability to do depth work in your first language can be particularly powerful, as early experiences and emotional memories are often encoded in the language we first spoke.

Commitment to ongoing learning. Even with decades of experience, Gabriela continues expanding her expertise. Her recent training in couple therapy through the Ulloa Institute (2025) reflects her commitment to staying current and deepening her skills. She's registered with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers (OCSWSSW).

Specialized knowledge in narcissism. Gabriela recently completed training in the psychopathology of narcissism through the Ulloa Institute (2024). This specialized knowledge is invaluable for understanding narcissistic personality patterns, whether in yourself, a partner, a parent, or other relationships—and healing from the impact of these dynamics.

Integration of multiple depth approaches. Beyond psychoanalysis, Gabriela is trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Gestalt psychotherapy, and Narrative Therapy—all approaches that honor complexity and work with different aspects of the psyche. She also has training in EMDR for trauma processing and Emotion-Focused Therapy for couples work.

Warmth and presence. What Gabriela's clients often mention is how honored she feels to listen to their stories. She approaches suffering, survival, transition, and healing with deep respect and humility. Her presence creates the kind of safe, non-judgmental space that's essential for psychoanalytic work.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Psychoanalysis in Ajax

  • While many forms of therapy focus on solving specific problems or managing symptoms, psychoanalysis aims for deeper understanding and transformation. Think of it this way: cognitive-behavioral therapy might help you identify and challenge negative thoughts; psychoanalysis helps you understand where those thoughts came from, what purpose they serve, and how your entire way of experiencing yourself and others was constructed. It's not better or worse than other therapies—just different in scope and goals.

  • Psychoanalysis is typically longer-term work than other therapies. While some focused psychoanalytic therapy might last several months, many people engage in psychoanalytic work for a year or more. Traditional psychoanalysis often involves multiple sessions per week, but Gabriela works with clients to find a frequency that fits their needs and circumstances—this might be once weekly or more often depending on the depth of work you're pursuing.

  • The couch is optional! Classical psychoanalysis often uses a couch to help reduce distractions and facilitate free association, but modern psychoanalytic therapy is more flexible. Gabriela will work with you in whatever configuration feels most comfortable and productive—sitting face-to-face, using the couch, or even doing virtual sessions.

  • That's completely normal, and it doesn't prevent psychoanalytic work. You don't need detailed memories to explore patterns, understand your defenses, or work with your unconscious material. Dreams, current relationships, how you relate in therapy, emotional reactions, and even what you don't remember can all be meaningful. The work happens through understanding patterns in the present as much as recovering the past.

  • Yes, but the approach is different. Rather than treating anxiety or depression as standalone symptoms to eliminate, psychoanalysis explores what these experiences mean—what they might be communicating, what conflicts they represent, how they relate to your history and sense of self. Many people find that as they gain insight and work through underlying issues, symptoms naturally shift. However, if you need immediate crisis intervention or symptom management, a more focused approach might be appropriate initially.

  • Gabriela works with individuals, couples, and families. For couples work, she integrates psychoanalytic understanding with Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), which is specifically designed for relationship therapy. This combination allows her to address both the unconscious dynamics each partner brings to the relationship and the emotional patterns between them.


  • Gabriela is a Registered Social Worker, so her services are covered by most extended health insurance plans under social work or psychotherapy benefits. Check your specific plan for coverage details. We provide receipts that you can submit to your insurance provider.

  • That's a great question to explore in an initial consultation. Gabriela can talk with you about what you're hoping for from therapy, what you've tried before, and whether psychoanalytic work aligns with your goals. Not everyone needs or wants this depth of exploration, and that's completely fine. Gabriela will be honest with you about whether she thinks psychoanalysis is the best fit or if another approach might serve you better.

  • Gabriela offers both in-person sessions at our Ajax office and virtual sessions across Ontario. Many people find that depth work translates well to virtual sessions, though some prefer the contained space of in-person therapy. You can also combine both—perhaps starting virtually and transitioning to in-person, or doing mostly virtual with occasional in-person sessions.

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You've lived with these patterns long enough. The same relationship dynamics, the same emotional reactions, the same sense of being at odds with yourself. You're ready to understand why—not just cope better, but actually transform from the inside out.

Gabriela Arriola brings decades of experience and advanced psychoanalytic training to this work. She's helped individuals, couples, and families in Ajax, Oshawa, and across Durham Region understand the hidden forces shaping their lives and create lasting change.

The journey starts with a conversation.

Our Ajax Office: Suite 3, 62 Harwood Ave S, Ajax, Ontario

Virtual sessions available across Ontario

Sessions available in English and Spanish. Day and evening appointments.

Your unconscious patterns don't have to stay unconscious. Understanding is the first step toward transformation, and Gabriela is ready to walk with you into that deeper work.

Gabriela Arriola, MSW, RSW, is a Registered Social Worker and psychoanalyst with advanced training from the Toronto Psychoanalytic Institute. She specializes in depth work with individuals, couples, and families dealing with relationship patterns, childhood trauma, identity questions, divorce, narcissistic dynamics, anxiety, depression, and the complexities of being human. Serving Ajax, Oshawa, Pickering, Whitby, and Durham Region both in-person and virtually across Ontario.

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